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Goethe said: people's happiness lies in the happiness of the heart.

things change with the heart, circumstances are created by the heart, and the joys and sorrows of life depend more on our state of mind.

the mindset is wrong, life is bitter, life is tired; if the mindset is right, everything will go well.

therefore, there is a famous saying: a sound mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom.

people with a good mindset have five habits, and one of them is great.

calm down

want to have a good night's sleep on the weekend, the neighbor's house is suddenly decorated; traffic jams and torrential rain on the way to work from time to time; hard work, but colleagues do not cooperate, but also add jams and snitch.

Life will not be plain sailing.

those who live happily can always be more tolerant and less emotional.

since there is nowhere to run, it is better to laugh.

they know: don't wrestle with a pig, because no matter you lose or win, you will get covered in mud.

just like Maitreya:

"A big belly can tolerate things that cannot be tolerated in the world; open your mouth and laugh at the funny people in the world."

it is instinct to have a temper; to be calm is an ability.

take your time

taking the road of life is like cooking a pot of porridge. You can't pick up the ingredients as soon as they are put into the pot.

can not eat hot tofu, often because of the lack of a little bit of patience to simmer.

people with a good mindset, even if they start later than others, are not panicked, are not in a hurry, and walk at their own pace.

because understand: life is not without stumbling, the so-called smooth road is down-to-earth, one step at a time.

take good care of your body, do what you like, treat the important people well, and everything you want is on the way.

let the wind and waves rise, sit firmly in the fishing boat.

Let bygones be bygones

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Hu Shi once said:

some people are really smart, but it's a pity that they don't use their intelligence properly. They can remember a remark that someone scolded someone 20 or 30 years ago.

such cleverness is so boring that I can't remember all the words scolded by others. And forget it faster and better.

nine times out of ten, there are unsatisfactory things in life. If you want to live a good life, you can't just rely on "good memory", but also "good forgetfulness".

know how to let go, forget past grievances, don't think about eight or nine, and always think about one or two.

there is nothing in the world to worry about.

most troubles are not caused by the event itself, but by the perception of the event.

Qian Zhongshu said: take a bath, look at a flower, eat a meal, if you feel happy, it is not all because the bath is clean, the flowers bloom well, or the dishes are to your taste, mainly because you have nothing on your mind.

instead of letting the soul carry a heavy load, it is better to lighten the burden on yourself and get rid of some baggage, so that the pace will become lighter.

you are at ease when you have nothing to worry about.

No dispute, no comparison

many people pursue fame and fortune, get red in the face, and get bruised all over. In the end, the originally broad world has only a selfish and narrow heart.

there are many troubles in the world, and if there is no dispute, it is better.

just as Chaplin said:

when I began to really love myself, I realized that I was always in the right time, in the right place, and everything was right. So I was at peace.

Today I understand that this is called "confidence".

not angry at the moment, do not argue about trivial things, then a little more quiet far away, less angry and glaring, set aside time and energy to enjoy the vast Lang Lang world.

Water does not fight, freedom; heaven does not fight, all birds return, do not fight in the world, get a piece of pure heaven and earth, free in the world.

be grateful

"my hands can still move; my brain can still think; I have ideals that I pursue all my life; I love me and the relatives and friends I love; by the way, I still have a grateful heart."

who would have thought that this open-minded and affectionate text came from Hawking, a disabled person who has lived in a wheelchair for more than 30 years.

when you encounter setbacks, if you keep complaining and depressed, you will only live a miserable life.

A person who does not know how to be grateful is still a poor person even if he has a lot of wealth. He who is grateful and grateful is the richest and happiest person in the world.

Su Shi said: life is like a reverse journey, I am also a pedestrian.

Life is but a journey. There is no regret worth entangling, the most should cherish is the immediate scenery, and the mood to see the scenery.

when I was young, who never dreamed of going to the end of the world with a sword, setting off waves of fate.

at last, I found that only with inner calmness and calmness can we live the most graceful life.