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Confucian style

rufengdajia

others respect you because they are excellent

the best way to get along with others: not proud at the top, not humble at the bottom.

respect for yourself and others is not only a person's self-cultivation, but also the basis of one's self-cultivation.

the famous entrepreneur Panasonic once fell ill and several friends came to see him.

he ate only half of it by himself.

the manager of the restaurant was very nervous and thought there was something wrong with the steak.

when checking out, Panasonic specially asked the restaurant to call the cook and said to him, "the steak is delicious, but I have a bad appetite, so I didn't finish it."

Don't worry, it's not that you did a bad job. I hope the manager won't blame you.

after hearing this, the cook made a deep bow to Mr. Panasonic.

Mr. Lu Xun once said such a sentence:

I think other people respect me because I am excellent.

slowly I understand that others respect me because others are excellent, and excellent people know how to respect others.

as one of the greatest entrepreneurs, Panasonic treats everyone equally and does not despise others because of its identity.

he doesn't think the chef's business is trivial. He pays attention to their affairs and takes good care of them to avoid causing trouble to them.

A person who is willing to respect small potatoes can be called a big shot. Such people respect others and solemnly themselves.

respect others and excel yourself

"Mencius leaves Lou Zhang sentence": those who respect others, people always respect them.

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only by knowing how to respect can we win respect.

A thriving cake shop ushered in a

A beggar in rags.

the guests next to them all pinched their noses and showed an expression of disgust.

but the store entertained the beggar warmly.

the beggar carefully took out a handful of change from his pocket and whispered to the shopkeeper, "I want a cake, the smallest one."

the shopkeeper picked out a small but delicate cake for him in the window.

and bowed to him to thank him for coming.

when the beggar left, the boss's grandson was puzzled and could not understand why Grandpa was so enthusiastic about a beggar.

Grandpa said: his money is begged a little bit, which is more difficult than others. He is really very kind to us when he is willing to buy our cake.

Sun Tzu said, "then why do you charge him?"

Grandpa said: he said to buy, of course, I should respect him, if I do not charge him money, but it is an insult.

later, the business of this cake shop became bigger and bigger, and by the time the owner retired, he had become a famous local entrepreneur, and even once became the richest man in the city.

it is said in the Book of changes that neither the upper hand nor the lower one is desecrated.

do not flatter those who are better than you, and do not treat those who are weaker than you lightly.

this is not only a person's inner kindness, but also a person's personality and self-cultivation.

know how to respect and let one learn to think of others.

know how to respect and let a person improve his EQ.

know how to respect and let a person improve his or her level.

excellent people know how to respect others, respect others, can become better.