people live a lifetime, a hundred years of spring and autumn.

No one can stop the passage of time. From birth to aging, it is a necessary cycle of life.

Best Age says:

"Life is like a journey, there is scenery in one place.

as long as we know how to cherish and enjoy, each age has its own unique charm. "

since you can't change your age, change your mindset.

Don't worry about getting old, let alone waste every inch of your life and live your life just right at every stage.

30 lively charm

there is a question on Zhihu: "what state are you in when you are about thirty?"

highly praised answer is:

"I think this is the golden age of life, when we have laid a certain foundation, have experience, and know more about ourselves."

bid farewell to the innocence and ignorance in our twenties, and in our thirties, we broke away from our original families and ushered in the real sense of independence and growth in life.

when people are thirty, they are not bound by life or worldly bondage, work hard, enjoy moderately, and live a life with lasting charm.

once followed a video blogger, Korean girl Onnuk.

after graduating from college, like all young people who have just entered the workplace, he has become an ordinary designer.

I often work overtime on weekdays and don't relax on weekends.

31, she wanted to change this state, leave her original living environment, change a new job and start a new life.

after work, she learned to add some "ingredients" to her leisure time to make life more enjoyable.

every morning, she would cook breakfast herself and start a vibrant day with delicious food.

after work, she will go to the supermarket, choose the freshest ingredients and cook a simple meal for herself.

in her thirties, she said goodbye to her hurry, slowed down the time, and brought her little life to life.

when we were young, we were used to following the rules, going with the flow, and getting used to being arranged by others.

but when life enters the journey of 30 years old, we need to know that there are not so many "should" in life, and we have to arrange our own life.

the rest of my life is long, so you and I don't have to panic.

instead of being hurried by the pace of others, it is better to dance a waltz in your own rhythm.

there is a cloud in Caigen Tan:

"years are long, but busy people promote themselves; romances and snowy moons are idle, but those who disturb themselves are redundant."

after the age of 30, stop trying to please others, but spend more time enriching yourself.

you can read books in the evening to enrich your mind, or you can arrange flowers on weekends to make the day delicate.

do not make do with it, live the quality of life; live up to it, and seize the present time.

the age of 30 is only the beginning of life. As long as you perform your own script confidently and calmly, you will certainly be able to reap the best fruits in the future.

40 living wisdom

Confucius said, "there is no doubt at forty."

I have worked hard in society for more than a decade. I have experienced the impermanence of the world and the warmth of human feelings.

at the age of forty, life has entered a new stage, beginning to get rid of ignorance and become wise and sober.

Han Han once said:

"learn to distinguish before you trust."

know how to distinguish the truth and falsehood in your ear, and learn to distinguish the truth and falsehood around you.

during the period of the three Kingdoms, Lu Dai, an official in Wu County, became a good friend of Xu Yuan because he appreciated Xu Yuan's talent.

Xu Yuan was born in poverty. It was only after the recommendation of Lu Dai that he entered the official career and became an official to the history of courtiers.

many people think that Xu Yuan should be grateful for such a great favor from Lu Dai.

unexpectedly, instead of singing praises, Xu Yuan was the first to stand up and point out his problems after every mistake made by Lu Dai.

seeing this, some people began to point fingers at Xu Yuan, thinking that he was ungrateful.

but Lu Dai said:

"Xu Yuan pointed out my fault face to face so that I could become better. That's why I value him."

being able to stay awake in the flashy world and rational in the praise and admiration is the reason why one can go to the top.

Tan Buniu wrote a poem:

"Open your eyes to see the world and save yourself by others' discerning eyes."

when a man is forty, he must live to be wise.

be round on the surface, square on the inside, and stick to the bottom line in your heart.

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be confused in appearance, sober in heart, and know how to tell the true from the false.

Don't be tempted in front of desire, keep introspection in the flowers, so that you can constantly correct yourself on the way of life and become a better self.

50 active users are calm

Life lasts a hundred years, fifty and a half.

Confucius said, "you know your destiny at fifty."

to the year of destiny, half of my life has been prosperous, maybe life can not go well.

but as the saying goes, nine times out of ten things go wrong in life.

No one's life can be plain sailing, stumbling is the normal state of life.

when you encounter something that bothers you, don't worry about it, don't get caught up in it, take it easy and take it easy.

at last year's Golden Rooster Awards, 51-year-old actress Yong Mei was invited to the stage as the last best actress.

after the speech, Yongmei turned to the staff and said:

"can my picture not be repaired as much as possible? if it is not repaired, can you not flatten all my wrinkles? it is very difficult for me to grow it.

Age is not my enemy, my story is written on my face.

and this face is the truest tribute to time. "

when many people reach the age of fifty, they begin to worry.

some people are worried about physical decline, some are afraid of getting older, and some feel that life is not easy.

but life is like a river, we are boats sailing on the river.

if you carry too much trouble, you will be too heavy to move; if you have too many things to fear, you will lose your way because of fear.

look aside and be bearish, and you can sail the ship to a farther place without worry or fear.

as the saying goes, "there is nothing to worry about in the world."

accept what should be accepted. There is no mountain in the world that cannot be climbed.

solve what can be solved. There is no barrier in the world that cannot be broken through.

many of the difficulties that we thought we could not overcome at that time were just a drop in the ocean for the rest of our lives.

Don't worry about troubles; don't be afraid when you encounter problems.

if you have a broad heart, don't worry.

60 live with ease

move in a hurry, enter the sixty-year mark, enter the year of hearing.

We took on too many roles in the first half of our lives.

at home, we are parents, children and partners.

in the company, we are employees, colleagues and bosses, but not ourselves.

at this age, children are old enough to live on their own.

the family is stable, so you don't have to worry about running it.

the work has also come to an end, and retirement has arrived as scheduled.

taste all the bitterness, sour and sweet, taste all the flavors of life, and finally come to the stage of enjoying the fruits of life.

when people are at sixty, put aside other people's things, do things that are happy, and live their own scenery.

in the variety show Mamma Mia, a dance troupe left a deep impression on me.

the members of the group are retired aunts with an average age of 60, but they are doing street dancing in hip-hop clothes.

some people do not understand: "how can you be so old and not serious when you are so big?"

an aunt said:

"I have loved dancing since I was a child. When I was young, I didn't have a chance to walk on the stage. Now I have a chance. I must seize it."

having been busy for half my life, I am selfish now. I don't have to be your housekeeper and I don't have to make money.

I want to fight for my dream in my lifetime. "

I think the life trajectory of many people is similar to that of this aunt.

with pressure and responsibility in the first half of his life, he can only choose to give up his dream and give in.

but when the trajectory of life slips to the second half of life, you should live for yourself.

like Sanmao's sentence very much:

"I don't have time to be young seriously, but when I understand it, I can only grow old seriously."

Sixty years old is another golden age of life.

We have enough time to do what we wanted to do when we were young but didn't have time to do it.

maybe it's a trip with friends to broaden your horizons, or maybe you go to college for the elderly and continue to improve.

it may also be to do a square dance to keep fit, or to play cards, chess and spend a leisurely life.

as said in six stories of a floating Life:

"A time when other people's feelings are repeated, the world is cool, the leisure time is excellent, and the time is spent."

in old age, people do not disturb others, but only live for themselves, add to life and increase the happiness of life.

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in the Little monk of one Zen, there is such a conversation.

the first Zen asked Master, "is it good for a person to have an ordinary life?"

Master replied:

"people are ignorant when they should be ignorant, and cry bitterly when they should cry;

Don't haggle over pennies when the wind is light, and you don't need to look mature at a domineering age. "

the sun flicked out of the window, and the shadow of the flowers moved forward.

No matter what age, there is something wonderful that belongs to that age.

30 years old, live a charm, will not be swayed by others;

at the age of forty, if you live with wisdom, you will not be overthrown by ignorance.

50 years old, live calmly, will not be entangled by troubles;

60 years old, live an easy life, there will be no regrets in life.

as long as you are full of love for life, you can live 70 years of grace even at the age of 70, and 80 years of detachment at the age of 80.

in life, there is no need to be afraid of the increase of age, because it is never time that controls us.But our own mindset.

Master Hongyi said: "Huazhi is full in spring, and the sky is full with a full moon."

the journey of life is very long, looking forward is at a loss, looking back is wistful.

for the rest of your life, may you have the courage not to admit defeat, the pride that is not entangled, the state of mind that does not care, and the heart that is not heavy.

, may every hard-working you grasp the present and make the best of yourself at every stage.

in the company, we are employees, colleagues and bosses, but not ourselves.

at this age, children are old enough to live on their own.

the family is stable, so you don't have to worry about running it.

the work has also come to an end, and retirement has arrived as scheduled.

taste all the bitterness, sour and sweet, taste all the flavors of life, and finally come to the stage of enjoying the fruits of life.

when people are at sixty, put aside other people's things, do things that are happy, and live their own scenery.

in the variety show Mamma Mia, a dance troupe left a deep impression on me.

the members of the group are retired aunts with an average age of 60, but they are doing street dancing in hip-hop clothes.

some people do not understand: "how can you be so old and not serious when you are so big?"

an aunt said:

"I have loved dancing since I was a child. When I was young, I didn't have a chance to walk on the stage. Now I have a chance. I must seize it."

having been busy for half my life, I am selfish now. I don't have to be your housekeeper and I don't have to make money.

I want to fight for my dream in my lifetime. "

I think the life trajectory of many people is similar to that of this aunt.

with pressure and responsibility in the first half of his life, he can only choose to give up his dream and give in.

but when the trajectory of life slips to the second half of life, you should live for yourself.

like Sanmao's sentence very much:

"I don't have time to be young seriously, but when I understand it, I can only grow old seriously."

Sixty years old is another golden age of life.

We have enough time to do what we wanted to do when we were young but didn't have time to do it.

maybe it's a trip with friends to broaden your horizons, or maybe you go to college for the elderly and continue to improve.

it may also be to do a square dance to keep fit, or to play cards, chess and spend a leisurely life.

as said in six stories of a floating Life:

"A time when other people's feelings are repeated, the world is cool, the leisure time is excellent, and the time is spent."

in old age, people do not disturb others, but only live for themselves, add to life and increase the happiness of life.

▽

in the Little monk of one Zen, there is such a conversation.

the first Zen asked Master, "is it good for a person to have an ordinary life?"

Master replied:

"people are ignorant when they should be ignorant, and cry bitterly when they should cry;

Don't haggle over pennies when the wind is light, and you don't need to look mature at a domineering age. "

the sun flicked out of the window, and the shadow of the flowers moved forward.

No matter what age, there is something wonderful that belongs to that age.

30 years old, live a charm, will not be swayed by others;

at the age of forty, if you live with wisdom, you will not be overthrown by ignorance.

50 years old, live calmly, will not be entangled by troubles;

60 years old, live an easy life, there will be no regrets in life.

as long as you are full of love for life, you can live 70 years of grace even at the age of 70, and 80 years of detachment at the age of 80.

in life, there is no need to be afraid of the increase of age, because it is never time that controls us.But our own mindset.

Master Hongyi said: "Huazhi is full in spring, and the sky is full with a full moon."

the journey of life is very long, looking forward is at a loss, looking back is wistful.

for the rest of your life, may you have the courage not to admit defeat, the pride that is not entangled, the state of mind that does not care, and the heart that is not heavy.

, may every hard-working you grasp the present and make the best of yourself at every stage.