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Hu Shi once said in my Mother:

"I have come to understand that the most disgusting thing in the world is an angry face, and the dirtiest thing in the world is to show an angry face to others, which is more painful than beating and scolding."

people in this life, but only a few decades, nine times out of ten unsatisfactory things, do not spend precious time with unworthy people and things.

everything in life is trivial except life and death. Don't pay an unnecessary price because you are angry.

being angry is the stupidest expression.

Feng Menglong, a writer in the Ming Dynasty, said: "words in anger must be leaked."

when a person is angry, emotions will prevail, and they will often act irrationally, hurting others and harming themselves.

anger is the stupidest and most useless behavior in the world. Not only can it not solve the problem, it may even cause unnecessary trouble.

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A camel was trudging in the desert. The sun was like a fireball, which made it thirsty, hungry and restless.

at this time, a piece of glass shredded the soles of its feet, and the tired camel was furious, raised its feet and kicked the fragments out.

the angry camel limped along, and the blood attracted the vultures in the air, hovering in the sky, and the camel ran wild with fear.

when he ran to the edge of the desert, the strong smell of blood attracted the wolves nearby.

tired and bleeding too much, the powerless camel can only run around like a headless fly.

accidentally ran to the ant nest near the cannibal ant. The smell of blood made the cannibal pour out of the nest and pounced on the camel.

the man-eating ant colony wrapped the camel like a black blanket, and after a while, the poor camel fell to the ground dripping with blood.

when he was dying, the camel lamented, "Why should I be angry with a small piece of glass?"

stupid people tend to get angry, can't control their emotions, and end up doing nothing and living a miserable life.

people, no matter how harsh the environment, should be calm and peaceful.

Don't get angry when something happens, and look at things rationally is the way to be wise!

angry, who is cheaper?

it is easy to get angry because of lack of self-cultivation; to suffer because of others is because the realm is not deep.

after the Chibi War, Sun Liu and his family competed for Jingzhou. Zhuge Liang thwarted Zhou Yu's plot three times and finally angered Zhou Yu to death.

for the first time, both sides chased and wiped out Cao Bing. Zhou Yu was caught by Cao Ren's trick and was shot with a poisoned arrow. Zhuge Liang took the opportunity to occupy the towers of Jingzhou. When Zhou Yu was injured, he saw that the flag of Liu Bei had been planted on the city of Jingzhou.

several counties had no one to share, and Zhou Yu was so angry that he fell off his horse because of his hard work.

the second time was Liu Bei crossed the river to recruit relatives. With Zhuge Liang's three tricks up his sleeve, he made the fake come true, which not only saved Jingzhou, but also got his wife.

Zhou Lang had a brilliant plan to settle the world, losing both his husband and his soldiers. He was so angry that his golden sore burst and fell unconscious on the ship.

for the third time, Zhou Yu wanted to take Xichuan as a pretext, taking advantage of Liu Bei's surprise to seize Jingzhou by using a "fake way to wipe out the enemy". As a result, Zhuge Liang was prepared to expose his trick on the spot and humiliated him.

the narrow-minded Zhou Yu, in a fit of anger, the golden sore cracked again, fell off the horse, and soon died!

before he died, he complained that God was so unfair. He looked up to the sky and sighed, "since you are born Yu, he Shengliang!"

every minute you are angry affects yourself and your health and happiness.

when a person is alive, the most important thing is to be happy. Even if you are unhappy again, don't be angry.

No one can replace you when you get sick. Face it with a smile, and life will be easier.

can you control your emotions before you can control your life

Xunzi said: "anger is not enough to seize, but joy is not enough."

instead of losing your temper angrily because of the rude words and deeds of others, it is better to change yourself and maintain a good state of mind.

in life, we often have conflicts with others because of little things, but people should not be slaves to emotions, we should know how to control them.

there is a professor who takes his child to pick out fruit at a fruit stall.

the vendor watched them pick and choose and said impatiently, "Sir, are you going to buy it or not?" Don't pick and choose like that. "

the professor replied politely, "I want to buy it!" I want to buy it! "

then give the selected fruit to the vendor and ask how much it is.

the vendor said in a bad tone, "this fruit is very expensive. Can you afford it?"

the professor still replied modestly, "I can afford it, I can afford it."

and pass the money to the peddler.

on the way home, the child couldn't help asking, "Dad, you are a professor and a person I admire. Why do you let the vendors shout so much today?" Aren't you angry at all? "

the professor replied, "it is my standard to treat people reasonably, modestly and politely. Rudeness and snobbery are the standards of this small vendor. I cannot let his standard lower mine."

people can have a temper, but they should know how to exercise restraint. If they can't control their emotions,Being born can only wear away in negative emotions and only add to your troubles.

in the face of all kinds of unhappiness in life, we can't vent blindly on the spur of the moment. We have to be the masters of emotions in order to control our lives.

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Mr. Feng Zikai once said:

"since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to rejoice; since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate; since there is no wish, it is better to be relieved."

it is better to be angry than to be proud, not to force yourself, not to embarrass others, not to give up the happiness that should belong to you for people and things that are not worth it.

the rest of life is not long, I hope we can not be angry, relax, reconcile with life, calm, humiliated smile to see the flowers bloom!

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