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there is such a story in Aesop's Fables.

the lion was too old to hunt any more, so he lay in the cave pretending to be sick and moaning.

whenever an animal comes in to visit, the lion takes advantage of its surprise and bites the visitor's neck hard.

all the beasts passed by the mouth of the cave and heard the lion's moaning. Without even thinking about it, they went in to visit, and without exception, they all became a delicious meal on the plate.

one day, the fox came when he heard the sound, but unlike the beasts, he hesitated and looked left and right in front of the cave.

the lion was already hungry, smelled the fox and moaned harder:

"Fox, I'm very ill. Come in and see me!"

the fox said:

"the footprints at the mouth of this hole are only forward, not backward. Do you think I still dare to come in and see you?"

as soon as these words came out, the groans in the cave stopped abruptly, and the fox finally escaped.

as the ancients said, "make a decision and move later."

lack of thinking when things happen, blindly move forward but do not know how to change, it is easy to trap yourself into irrevocable fate.

when you encounter a dilemma that is difficult to choose, stop at the right time and let your mind turn around so that you can jump out of your immediate limitations and make a difference.

Life is the art of turning.

turn your mind around and look at things from a different perspective

there is a saying in "casual love": "change is new, unchanged is rotten; change is living, unchanged is a board."

there are many difficulties in life, often not how difficult things are, but because of sticking to the road at hand.

the so-called poor change, change change, let the mind turn, the problem of helplessness may be easily solved.

Shen Wansan, written by writer du Wenhe, knows this well.

near the tea season, he followed the caravan to buy tea.

with such a weak family background, Shen Wansan could not compete with the big firms from the city, and even the tea that the tea farmer promised to sell to him was intercepted by others at a higher price.

seeing others come back with a full load, he got nothing. Unwilling, Shen Wansan had an idea and bought all the bamboo baskets nearby with a wave of his hand.

when tea merchants waited until they had to return, they found that they lacked enough vehicles and finally had to go to Shen Wansan to buy bamboo baskets at a price five times higher than usual.

although Shen Wansan didn't sell a piece of tea, he still made a lot of money.

not only does he do business, but Shen Wansan also knows how to change with the situation.

at the time of the autumn harvest, Private Zhu Yuanzhang approached. In order to enable the people in the city to harvest food rations for the coming year, Shen Wansan came forward and begged Zhu Yuanzhang to postpone sending troops.

Zhu Yuanzhang had no intention to attack the city, but when he heard that Shen Wansan was a super-rich in the south of the Yangtze River, he blackmailed him to contribute money to reward the armed forces.

Shen Wansan went out of town overnight with only 12 pieces of copper coins on him. Even if he raised money immediately, it would be difficult to satisfy Zhu Yuanzhang's appetite.

when he was in a dilemma, Shen Wansan changed his mind and immediately had an idea.

he glued copper coins together and made six copper coins with positive sides on both sides.

then he threw out the coins in front of all the officers and soldiers and told them that if all six coins were positive, it would show that they would win a complete victory in accordance with the will of God.

when Zhu Yuanzhang achieved his goal, he no longer made it difficult for him.

Liu Run once said: "mediocre people change results, good people change causes, and the most senior people change their thinking."

only if you change with the situation and learn to look at the problem from a different perspective, you can handle it in the face of difficulties.

turn your heart around and look at life in a different state of mind

A young man was in agony because he was blind. He went to the magic doctor and asked for a cure for his eyes.

the doctor told him that when he broke a thousand strings, his eyes would regain their light.

the young man played the piano day and night, and before he broke a thousand strings, he was already immersed in the sound of the piano and was no longer sad that he could not see it.

then he realized that God healed not the eye, but the heart.

as soon as the mindset changes, the originally dark life can also be illuminated in a variety of colors.

there are all kinds of disappointments in the world, but in the final analysis, there is no insurmountable hurdle in life, only an insurmountable state of mind.

historians in the late Ming Dynasty worked painstakingly for 24 years to talk about moving, and finally wrote a "clear record" at the age of 50.

however, he was tricked by fate. The night before he was about to go to print, his home was robbed and all the manuscripts of "Ming Shi Lu" were lost.

half of his life's hard work has been wasted, and anyone will have a mental breakdown.

at first, Tan Qian looked at the empty desk every day in a daze, mired in the torture of despair, confusion and remorse, and almost wanted to commit suicide.

but he quickly adjusted his mind and regarded the accident as a God-given opportunity to examine the inadequacies in the manuscript.

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then talked about the relocation of four years, rewrote more than 4 million words of "Ming Shi Lu", has become a historical masterpiece handed down forever.

like Tan Qian, everyone will suffer an unbearable blow in their lives.But what people lack is not the solution to the problem, but the ability to look at life with a different mindset.

as psychologist Maslow said:

"if the state of mind changes, the attitude changes with it;

attitude changes, habits change;

habit changes, personality changes;

if your character changes, your life will change.

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living in the world is like walking along the road, often hindered by mountains and rivers, but the road is at your feet and in your heart, so that your heart turns with the road, and the natural world is wide.

No matter how difficult life is, turn a corner and come over.

only through a lifetime of misty rain can we achieve indomitable resilience.

make a turn, change the road and move forward

actor Christopher became a household name for his starring role in Superman.

but while everyone was expecting Christopher to make a big career in acting, he fell off his horse while riding, paralyzing him and spending the rest of his life in a wheelchair.

when he learned that he could not return to the screen, he said to everyone in despair, "Let me be free early."

in order to soothe his inner trauma, his family drove him around.

all the way, Christopher was indifferent to the beauty along the way, until they reached a mountain road, where there was always a cliff and there was no way to go, but there was a sign telling them to "turn ahead".

some people say: "in fact, life only does two things, one is to move forward, the other is to turn."

if you think about it, it is true.

when setbacks and misfortunes come, it is not that the future is broken, but a reminder that it is time to turn.

when God closes a door, you have to change direction to see another window he opens for you:

Mark Twain lost all his money in business several times, and finally found that he was quite talented in writing, so he abandoned business and followed the literature. from then on, there was one more famous writer in the literary world.

as a basketball player, Adelman knew that he lacked the athletic talent to become a top star, so he moved off the court early and became one of the coaches with the highest winning rate in the history of the NBA.

Lu Buxuan, a talented scholar at Peking University, first dreamed of compiling dictionaries and revising dictionaries. Several times after graduation, he gave up his decent career to sell pork. For example, this year's sales have reached 1.8 billion yuan.

there is not only one direction of struggle in life. Instead of clinging to its obsession, one way to go to the dark, another way to harvest a different scenery.

Water is surrounded by shape, and people are flexible with the trend. In a life that dares to turn, even if a road is blocked, you can find all the roads leading to Rome.

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one day, the old man asked the little monk, "if you can't advance or retreat, what can you do about it?"

the little monk replied, "step aside."

just four words, tell the true meaning of life.

the courage to forge ahead is valuable, but what is more rare is the wisdom of turning.

Let the mind turn, go to the place where the water is poor, the road turns to the west bridge, it has its own willows and flowers.

Let the state of mind turn around, let go of all kinds of helplessness, let go and think about it, and the world will be wide from then on.

Let the direction turn, although you can't advance or retreat, it's a different way to make a detour.

in the second half of my life, may you and I not lose our determination to move forward, and be more clear in our minds to move forward.

the road ahead is smooth and unimpeded.