some people say that they did not meet for no reason.

everyone appears in your life for a reason.

those who love you give you warmth and strength.

those who hurt you give you experience and strength.

the person who is nice to you is here to ferry you

writer Anthony once said:

there is always unexpected warmth and endless hope in life.

there are always some people who come across the vast sea of people with tenderness.

there is always some fate, through the years cold and warm, do not give up company.

when you are at a low ebb, I will lend a helping hand and give you encouragement and comfort.

in the gloom, accompany you through loneliness, warm and support each other.

such people deserve to be grateful with our hearts and cherish for the rest of our lives.

I have heard a story.

there was a Zen master practicing in the mountains. One night, when he returned to his hut after a walk in the bright moonlight, he was patronized by thieves.

for fear of alarming the thief, he has been standing at the door waiting for him.

the thief could not find anything of value and ran into the Zen master when he was about to return.

when the thief was alarmed, the Zen master said:

"you've come a long way to visit me, but you can't let you come back empty-handed!"

as he spoke, the Zen master took off his coat.

"it's cold at night. Take this dress and go."

the Zen master put his clothes on the thief, who was at a loss and slipped away with his head down.

the Zen master looked at the back of the thief and said with emotion:

"Poor man, I wish I could send you a bright moon!"

the next day, when the warm sun fell on the hut, the Zen master pushed open the door and saw that the coat he had put on the thief last night was neatly folded on the door.

the Zen master was very happy and murmured:

"I finally gave him a bright moon."

warmth flows.

to be kind to others is a kind of reincarnation, those who love return, those who are blessed return.

writer Xue Xiao Zen said:

the more you go forward, the more you find that you want to be with a warm person who gives you energy and time to make you feel grand in this world.

those who are kind to us not only give us the courage to face the ups and downs of life, but also let us understand compassion and kindness.

people are mutual, and happiness is really exchanged.

A person does not know how to be gentle to others until he has been treated gently.

Lin Xi said:

We are all passers-by in the snowy night, melting the snowflakes on each other's shoulders because of friction.

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when goodness meets goodness, you will also believe that you must be a kind person for the rest of your life.

Thanksgiving to the people who are good to us in life, it is they who use sincerity and kindness to cross us to become a warm person, so that our hearts are full of sunshine.

the person who hurt you is here to ferry you

people practice intentionally or unintentionally all their lives.

No one can be plain sailing on the way to growing up.

if someone helps you, someone is bound to hurt you for balance.

in fact, the person who hurt you also came to ferry you.

every tear is accompanied by awakening.

every pain is the pillar of growth.

the ups and downs of life is not to make you flinch, but to let you learn to hold your own umbrella.

the deception after trust is not to chill you, but to let you see the world clearly.

We all know the genius Xu Zhimo, who left many well-known poems in his life.

among them, there are quite a lot of love poems, some written to Lin Huiyin and some to Lu Xiaoman, but none of them is written to his wife Zhang Youyi.

this affectionate and romantic man is extremely cold in his marriage to Zhang Youyi.

Zhang Youyi was born into a wealthy family and was educated in a women's college from an early age.

but because he accepted the marriage arranged by his family, he married Xu Zhimo at the age of 15, and he was looked down upon by Xu Zhimo, who advocated new ideas at that time.

Xu Zhimo shouted "country bumpkin" at first sight of Zhang Youyi's picture, and compared their marriage to "small feet and a suit."

when Zhang Youyi was pregnant with her second child, Xu Zhimo was frantically pursuing Lin Huiyin.

when he learned that he was going to be a father again, his first reaction was to "get rid of it".

in the face of Xu Zhimo's ruthlessness, Zhang Youyi said submissively:

"I heard that someone died of an abortion."

Xu Zhimo scoffed:

"and those who died on the train, don't they take the train?"

later, the two divorced and became the first person in the new type of divorce.

after being abandoned by Xu Zhimo, Zhang Youyi silently gave birth to her youngest son in a foreign country, and then followed her second brother to Germany to study early childhood education and learned fluent German.

A few years later, Zhang Youyi returned home and started a Yunchang clothing company with others.

the woman who was laughed at by Xu Zhimo as a "country bumpkin" finally ran a clothing company, leading the fashion trend of the whole society.

because of excellenceZhang Youyi not only made a success of Yunchang Garment Company, but also served as vice president of Shanghai Women's Commercial savings Bank.

it is Xu Zhimo's ruthlessness that makes Zhang Youyi understand the unreliability of marriage. With her own efforts, she performed a real-life version of "the first half of my Life".

from being abandoned to the wind and unboiled water, it was excellence and strength that brought Zhang Youyi luck.

the most thorough harm, in exchange for the most powerful growth.

writer Roman Roland once said:

Life is like a torrent. Without a hidden reef, you can't stir up beautiful waves.

those who cannot beat you will only make you stronger.

those who have hurt you are here to enrich your experience and complete your life.

I like a sentence that Charles Billard once said:

when the sky is dark enough, the stars will shine.

people are always strong when the pain is over, mature when they are through, and know how to cherish and give up at the right time.

Thank those who deceive you, for they have enhanced your wisdom.

Thank those who despise you, for they inspire you to fight.

Thank those who slander you, because he sharpens your character.

the process of sculpturing oneself through experience must be accompanied by pain and hard work.

but the self-beating with one hammer and one chisel will eventually enable us to gain a better self.

in one's life, there will always be someone to cross you

in this world, no one will treat you for no reason, and no one will hurt you for no reason.

all the experiences of life are the meaning of moving forward.

Zeng Guofan said:

A gentleman can do his best in personnel, regardless of destiny, and destiny is in personnel.

what kind of person you will become when you do things with a mindset.

what really determines the height of our lives is how to face the experiences in life.

in the face of those who are good to us, know how to return and be grateful, and one day your "giving up" will become a "reward" for you.

in the face of those who hurt us, do not hold grudges and excuses, quiet strength is the best revenge.

May the kindness you receive warms your fingertips;

May the bitter water you swallow turn into a blessing one day.