You don't have to stab people, but you have to have thorns on your body.
between people, they hit it off for a long time, but they don't get along. Good-bye, what do you want?
between the heart and the heart, it is easy to get along, but there is no tiredness, what is the entanglement?
people may not remain the same all their lives. Those who love you may not always love you, and those who really love you may not always be sincere.
forget it if you see it clearly, forget it if you see through it, and don't put yourself in a jam.
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some people, we are not the same people, just go our separate ways and don't always cling to it.
Life is so tiring, learn to let yourself live easily.
to see a person clearly, there is no need to fall out
people, a window, can see a different world, the difference lies in the field of vision.
when you stand on the 30th floor, you see the scenery; when you stand on the third floor, all you see is rubbish.
different hearts, different endings, different patterns, different lives.
sometimes, we see a person clearly, just forget it, there is no need to question, there is no need to argue.
those who get along with each other are friends, but those who don't get along are passers-by.
some people hurt you, lie to you, and snub you without thinking. In fact, their world does not lack you, not in the past, but in this moment.
accept the changes of others, learn to improve yourself, and don't cherish those who don't care about you.
because of that, it will not only be undervalued, but will also be regarded as a child's play.
in this life, don't get used to walking around in other people's world and be the protagonist of your own drama. what's wrong with that?
different ways do not conspire with each other
Haruki Murakami said:
not all fish live in the same sea.
each of us has different backgrounds and situations, so we all have different levels.
when you find someone's mistake, or see someone clearly, the best way is not to argue with him and get him to admit his mistake to your face.
in fact, you ask yourself, is your world really short of him?
when you see some people clearly, they will be lighter and farther away from now on.
he will never appear in your sight again, and there is no need for you to argue with him about what is right and what is wrong.
right? What if it's wrong?
if you are a villain, if you embarrass him, you will find enemies for yourself.
if you are a passer-by, it is a waste of time to argue with him.
Smart people know how to examine themselves, see a person clearly, be wary of themselves, and avoid deficiencies.
We can't deny that everyone has his strengths, and so does the one who hurt you.
instead of criticizing his weaknesses, it is better to learn his strengths, then rub shoulders with him with a smile and say thank you, which is the wisest thing to do.
Don't let villains and losers stand in your way
Ma de said:
you don't have to stab people, but you must have thorns on your body.
We don't have to make a good impression on everyone we meet, but we need to be self-cultivation.
helping others with difficulties, forgiving others' shortcomings and tolerating others' mistakes is conducive to broadening one's mind;
being kind to others, saying nothing about right and wrong, and looking down on the past is conducive to improving your own pattern.
but for some people, if you give way, they can't give way if they take three steps forward.
some people, if you tolerate them, they will not compromise if they bite the hand that feeds them.
showing mercy to the good is a kind of understanding, while saving face to the wicked is a kind of trouble!
what you give way is tolerance; what you can't give way is wisdom!
stay away from bad people, don't keep company with small people, and don't care about the opinions of strangers.
people, we are not money. If we can't do it, everyone likes it. Sometimes, we just have to have a clear conscience.